Coach Dean Smith on How to Deal with Mistakes

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“What do you do with a mistake? Recognize it, admit it, learn from it, forget it.”
Dean Smith

Many players, when first learning to read music, find it very challenging. This is normal.

Learning to play from musical notation takes time and work. With each practice, we fail over and over again.

This is true for many elements of learning guitar. But sight-reading music notation seems to bring out the emotions in many people.

For others, it’s the small mistakes that show up in pieces we “should be able to play by now”.

The trick, as legendary coach Dean Smith says, is to suck the marrow from the mistake, then move on.

Recognize it: Pay enough attention to recognize mistakes when they happen.

Admit it: Mistakes are part of the game. No need to deny mistakes or get offended. We’re not bad people – we simply messed up. And after all, a mistake is useful when we…

Learn from it: Seek insight into what went wrong. Was it too fast? Is there confusion about something? Were we distracted? Questions lead to answers.

Forget it: Tomorrow we’ll have new mistakes to deal with. There’s no need to carry the current one with us. We can release it, re-fluff our feathers, and move on.

Learning guitar is a long-term relationship. Each day for (hopefully) decades we’ll sit down to work and practice. How we handle mistakes will be a determining factor in how much we learn and enjoy our time on guitar.

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