{"id":60153,"date":"2019-10-01T04:00:02","date_gmt":"2019-10-01T11:00:02","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.classicalguitarshed.com\/?p=60153"},"modified":"2021-09-27T07:10:05","modified_gmt":"2021-09-27T14:10:05","slug":"tq-confucious-practice","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/classicalguitarshed.com\/tq-confucious-practice\/","title":{"rendered":"Confucius: The One Main Thing NOT to Do In Your Guitar Practice"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/classicalguitarshed.com\/category\/tuesday-quotes\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" aria-label=\" (opens in a new tab)\">Tuesday Quotes<\/a> are short explorations of music, life, and the daily endeavor of practicing classical guitar. Enjoy!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator\"\/>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\"><p><em>\u201cIt does not matter how slowly you go as long as you do not stop.\u201d <\/em><\/p><cite> <em>~Confucius<\/em> <\/cite><\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator\"\/>\n\n\n\n<p>Neil Gaiman wrote much of his book <em>Coraline<\/em> just one or two sentences a night before bed. That\u2019s all he had time for. But it kept it moving forward.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Many aspiring writers don\u2019t write because they \u201cdon\u2019t have enough time\u201d. How did Gaiman allow just a couple of sentences a night to suffice? How did the slow-going not get him down?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Our minds operate largely in equations: \u201c<em>This equals that.<\/em>\u201d or \u201c<em>If this, then that.<\/em>\u201d Equations are our rules about the world and our place in it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>But often, our equations are wrong. They may have been valid in the past, but not may not be anymore. Or they may define an ideal, but not be practical much of the time (more on this below).<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>For instance, many rules we had for navigating the world as kids no longer apply. In many situations, it\u2019s actually beneficial to talk to strangers or accept candy. And as it turns out, we <em>can<\/em> actually \u201ctrust people over 30\u201d. If we hold to these rules, we limit our experiences and opportunities.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>These equations save brainpower. They\u2019re shortcuts. If we create an equation, we no longer have to think about it. This is how the brain works, and it\u2019s very helpful. We\u2019d feel overwhelmed by daily life otherwise.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The key is to review our equations and make sure that they still work for us (not against us). Many of these we choose knowingly. But most we don\u2019t. So we need to cull them to stay open to the world and have new experiences.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>When it comes to our guitar practice, we also create these equations. Some are great, some are not.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li><em>A good practice looks like this: \u2026. <\/em><\/li><li><em>I\u2019ll be a good player when\u2026.. <\/em><\/li><li><em>I\u2019ve done well when\u2026 <\/em><\/li><li><em>I\u2019ve finished a piece of music when\u2026<\/em><\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>These ideals can be useful. We can use them to gauge our focus, organization, progress, etc.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The problem lies in the inverse. When we don\u2019t meet these ideals, we can feel as if we\u2019ve failed. And this is disheartening.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Take this equation:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>A successful practice = at least X minutes.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It\u2019s an ideal. But to believe this equation, we must also believe the opposite. This means that if our practice is shorter than this, it\u2019s not successful. And after a few \u201cunsuccessful\u201d practices, we lose motivation. Eventually we may just give up (\u201cAfter all, If I can\u2019t do it right, what\u2019s the point? \u201d)<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Instead, we could change the equation to this:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>An <strong>ideal <\/strong>practice = at least X minutes. <\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>or<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>A luxurious practice = at least X minutes. <\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>or<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>A non-workday practice = at least X minutes.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Guitar is a long game. This means that each individual practice is less important on its own. In the larger scheme, the most important thing is to keep moving forward. Sure, we can get each practice as effective as possible. But it\u2019s still more important that we keep showing up and sitting down with the guitar.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Like any long journey, we will have down days. We will have interruptions. We should expect obstacles and setbacks. They are part of the game.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>In light of this, we can create equations that keep us moving forward and feeling good about it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Such as:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>Any practice = a successful practice. <\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>or<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>A successful practice = at least 3 minutes. <\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>or<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>At least one moment of one-pointed attention = a successful practice.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>When we think in larger time-frames, we can cut ourselves some slack and enjoy the time we do have now. When we release the need for each practice to be some perfect example of time management and focus, we can relax and just enjoy playing guitar.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Tuesday Quotes are short explorations of music, life, and the daily endeavor of practicing classical guitar. 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