{"id":197870,"date":"2021-08-03T08:00:00","date_gmt":"2021-08-03T15:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.classicalguitarshed.com\/?p=197870"},"modified":"2021-08-04T09:35:31","modified_gmt":"2021-08-04T16:35:31","slug":"tq-maya-angelou-on-my-own-side","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/classicalguitarshed.com\/tq-maya-angelou-on-my-own-side\/","title":{"rendered":"Maya Angelou on Setting Ourselves Up for Success"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

Tuesday Quotes are short explorations of music, life, and the daily endeavor of practicing classical guitar. Find more here<\/a>. Enjoy!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u201cI learned a long time ago the wisest thing I can do is be on my own side.\u201d<\/em><\/p>

Maya Angelou<\/em><\/p><\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

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Guitar is a solo sport. Even if we play with others, the bulk of our time is often spent alone. In classical guitar especially, we work largely in isolation.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

We may have support, such as a teacher or program. But in most practices, it\u2019s just us, our guitars, and the challenge at hand.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

But it may not feel so alone, because of the extra voices in our head. We may hear chatter from all corners, some supportive and some not.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

French philosopher Blaise Pascal wrote, \u201cAll of humanity\u2019s problems stem from man\u2019s inability to sit quietly in a room alone.<\/em>\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Our inner voices often act against us. Psychologically, we could talk about the well-meaning subconscious. Eckart Tolle<\/a> speaks of the \u201cpain body.\u201d Zen Buddhism refers to the \u201cmonkey mind<\/a>.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Whatever we choose to call it, it is real. And it has thrown the wet towel of dismay over many a guitar practice.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cI\u2019m over X years old<\/a>, and this means\u2026.\u201d or \u201cI\u2019m too busy for practice\u2026<\/a>\u201d or \u201cI like rock music, so classical guitar is not for me\u2026.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

And these may arrive anytime, not just in the practice itself. If we have learned to focus<\/a>, the practice may be blissfully free from the chattering mind. But it may still cast a pall on our study at other times. It may affect motivation, time management, or mood.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Maya Angelou said, \u201cI learned a long time ago the wisest thing I can do is be on my own side.<\/em>\u201d For us in our musical study, this is also useful.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

We can prepare for our practice beforehand<\/a>. We can have everything we need at hand. We can tidy our space to reduce distraction. We can brew a cup of tea and make practice a sacred time.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

And we can also be aware of any stories that may not serve us. We can question our perceived limitations. Many of us undermine our musical enjoyment through false beliefs.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Any statement that argues against our musical enjoyment is bound to be false. We may have real physical limitations, such as several missing fingers. (In which case another instrument may be a better choice.) But for most of us, these statements are often ways of protecting against failure<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Instead, we can notice these thoughts and turn them around. We can recognize them and decide to believe something else.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

We can pat ourselves on the back for doing something positive<\/a> and generative. We can feel good about using our mind and body in service of something beautiful. We can relish reaching for the mental and physical challenges just beyond grasp.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

And this, too, is a practice. Harder at first and easier in time<\/a>.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Tuesday Quotes are short explorations of music, life, and the daily endeavor of practicing classical guitar. Find more here. Enjoy! \u201cI learned a long time ago the wisest thing I can do is be on my own side.\u201d Maya Angelou Guitar is a solo sport. Even if we play with others, the bulk of our time is often spent alone. In … <\/p>\n

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